Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Today's most crazy story I've told and heard!!!!!!!!!! And he's not in the Army!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay, this has to be the most crazy story.  Sit down and grab a drink cause here we go.
So all my friends know my love of Chris Evans and Chris Pratt (my cougar crushes).  I follow them on twitter.  Well a couple of weeks ago Chris Evans started following me on twitter.  (Of course we know this isn't the real Chris Evans), but I played along.  He mentioned he saw that am a big fans of his.  In the beginning I told him I didn't believe him but then I decided to play along.  So for a couple of weeks it's been boring exchange.  So this morning I get a message from him and now I would like to share it with you.  This one is a riot.
I was laughing so hard at this.  So he would give me 20% of his $20,000,000.  Really?  Did he think I would fall for that?  I guess I could have played along further just to see but I didn't and shut him down.
Here are the 2 profiles on Twitter.  You can see the difference where I mentioned it in my message above.

I don't really need to be on the dating site to get scammers.  I've got them on Twitter and Instagram now.  Since I joined both of those to advertise my blog, they are coming out of the word work.
Another fun day in the life of the Stargatelady. 

Monday, October 9, 2017

Today's contestant on "Try to fool the Stargatelady"

Well this one isn't in the army but works on an oil rig.  Interesting.  But the same sad story.  LOL!!!
Take a gander.

From: Paul Lab []
Sent: Friday, October 6, 2017 4:33 AM

Hi Pasty

How are you doing? Thanks for the note and response to my email and i would love to know you better. I believe this could be the beginning of a good relationship. My name is Paul,  I work as a Petroleum Geologist. I consult and act as a sub contractor with Fortune 100 companies as a project Supervisor/Contractor in Rigs offshore.. I am currently working at a Rigs offshore in NY and I am retiring in 3months time. I have a son and also a brother. parents both late.I am  widower. Story for another day. :) 

Let me know what you want to know about me and we can kick start. 

I hope to hear from you soon and hope you are having a good and productive day.



On Fri, Oct 6, 2017 at 7:24 AM, Patsy <> wrote:

So happy to hear from you.  Oh by the way it’s Patsy not Pasty.  😉

I am divorced and have a daughter.  Been divorced since 2005.  Happily divorced.  😊

I am secretary and love my job.

I had no idea we had oil rigs off of New York.  I didn’t know there was oil up there.



Paul Lab []
Sent: Saturday, October 7, 2017 2:26 PM

Hello Patsy  hope i got this right  lol

Thanks for the email, So let's get started and let me shared more insight about me, so you truly know where I am coming from and where I am going to. I hope this is a start to something wonderful. 

My Business and Line of Work:

I work as a Petroleum Geologist, And I have a tour round the world for the past 39years doing this business. It is stressful and hectic but at the same time very rewarding.  I am currently working at a Rigs offshore in NY. I am here close to the Atlantic coast, northern side NY. The reception sometimes is very bad and texting works better for me. as soon as i am done over here which should be about 6weeks. then that would be my last deal as I call it quit and enjoy the rest of my life with that special woman who will be my best friend and well as a lover. Hope that woman is you. :).  I was Born Nov 20 1960

Where would I want to settle down?:

Well, I remain opened to my partners' suggestion, and we would have to seat and talk that over. I am very mobile and would go wherever would be good and excellent for both I and that extraordinary woman. When I am not working, I stay more in NY. I do have a house in Woodside NY, and also I have a home in Whittier CA. So I am very mobile.

Little about my Family:

I lost my dad and mom alongside my sister in a car accident 2012. I do have a Brother Fredy. One of the sweetest men I know and he is my best friend, although he has some medical issue. We both are very close, and he is so kind and sweet. I have a Son Smith, and he is 22, and he is in Wales studying. Lost my wife to cancer, sad story and don’t want to talk about it. I am glad i was able to heal from it. it wasn’t easy but i was able to.

Where I am From:

My Dad emigrated from Slovakia but, lived in Wales and my Mom from the USA. They meant when my Mom went to school in Wales and later relocated to State. My dad was in the line of Mining as well, and he thought me the business or rather I would say I learned a little bit from him, but unfortunately i didn’t followed in his line. I was five years old when my dad got a big contract in Germany, so, that required we all moved to Germany and we stayed there until I was 16 and later moved to wales. When I was 21, we moved back to Germany, then Slovakia  and then transferred to the State. So it was an on and off thing 

So your Turn.

Every day can be a beautiful day, Just take a look around you and think about all of the wonderful things you have to be thankful for...the sunshine, roses, laughter, close friends, family, music, and beautiful dreams, The storm is never half as bad as it seems, Don’t let the rain ruin your day, When the dark clouds move in just smile, because the good times are on the way and you have Paul to talk to :). I am attaching some pic with this email for you. 

Have a lovely day as I await your response.



Hi Paul! 

 Glad you hear from you.  I have questions and some stuff for you.

  1. Are you really who you say you are?
  2. Are you really an oil person?
  3. Is your family really dead?
  4. Where are you really from?
  5. Who are you really?
  6. I don’t have money so if you ask me to send you money I won’t.
Perhaps I was a bit harsh.  Nah!!!!!!!!!!   Now here is the picture he was using and you know where this goes by now, right?
The Liars walls of disdain!!!!!!!!!!



Sunday, October 1, 2017

Multiple profiles - same idiot

Below is a picture of a guy from POF that I posted in June.  He constantly hits the Meet Me button on many women and I am one of them.  He continues to create more and more profiles with the same pictures.

Well today out of the blue I got and message from him and once again I blocked him.  But he will just create another one.

It's a good thing I am thick skinner and stuff like this just makes me laugh.

He needs a name.  Any suggestions?  Keep it clean.  :)
Here is his pictures from my June post.

Friday, September 29, 2017

He blocked me..... HOW RUDE - LOL!!!!

These stories are always the same but have different twists here and there.  Well this guy didn't stand a chance with me. I stomped on him right away.  Didn't feel like "playing the game".  LOL!!


In red on my last text where it shows it didn't go through, that means he blocked me.  Shame on him.  Only I can do the blocking.  LOL!!!!
Now allow me to introduce you to the guy who says him name is Roy but we know he's lying.  LOL!!!

Something I've notice probably the last couple of months is now I am getting guys contact me on Twitter and Facebook.  On Facebook I get friend requests from guys I don't know.  Today was one from a military guy.  DELETE! 
My twitter account is for my blog here and I post my blog there often.  So you would think they'd read it before contacting me.  NOPE!
So beware of people on social media that you know.  Don't accept Facebook friend requests from someone you don't know. 
And that's today's tale. 

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

I am pleased to introduce you to my new co-hort on catching scammers

As I mentioned in my last post I joined several more scammer pages on facebook.  This person contacted me about sharing my blog on his page.  And in return I will share his facebook page here.
So I asked him a few questions and he gratuitously answered them.  He has been a great resource too.  So here we go. 
Were you in the military?  If so what branch and years were you in? Are you married, do you have kids?
Well, about myself. I'm a 50 something Male, married with two adult children. I am retired Military, (US Marine Corps 1980-2000) originally from the south but now live on the West Coast. I unfortunately am also disabled which means I have a lot of free time on my hands.
How did you get involved starting your facebook about the military scammers?
I got into helping identify Military Romance Scammers as a sideline from also being interested in combating "Stolen Valor" where people claim to have been awarded rank and medals from the military in order to obtain benefits, take from charities or just get their names in the media. We had one lady who was part of our group almost get scammed into sending Walmart Gift cards to a scammer posing as a US Army Sergeant Major. The more I looked into it the more I found out just how bad the problem is. I started a face book page called Stop Fake Military Romance Scammers in 2014. Since then I have answered hundreds of questions from people about profiles on dating sites and on  Face Book.
As far as why I consider myself qualified to ID these scammers there are two main reasons. First and foremost I am a retired senior non-commissioned officer who served 20 years. Although there may have been slight changes since I left the service I am familiar in the way that military pay, leave, travel, medical and deployments work as well as most administrative matters Second I have become well versed in the methods that scammers use. They often have practically the same script they use over and over. I always talk with people who contact me and go through what the scammer has sent them. Once in a while I get a new twist that scammers throw in. I try to keep a handy "reference guide" posted on my page and I update it often.
What advice can you women on these scammers?
That's a  very complex question. I could probably do a long seminar on the subject matter In order to answer this I would like to break this question down into several sub topics as follows:

1. Who Scammers Target.

2 Who the Scammers are.

3 What type of environment ( country) allows scammers to thrive,

4 Who are the actual Victims of military romance scams.

5. What is a quick way to detect scammer profiles.

6 How the scam plays out.

7 What is a sure way to find out if someone is a Scammer.

8 The delicate issue of nude photos

9 After the scam ends

 Who Scammers Target.

 As far as a "target group" for these scammers. Military Romance Scams are a subset of the type of scams that are run via the Internet.  Although I have had a few cases of men who contact the page ( both straight and gay) the overwhelming number of people who are targeted are women over the age of 40 who are single, divorced or widowed. Although scammers certainly use dating sites they often send Friend request to women on face book with the hopes of getting a response. It's a " scattergun" tactic often used in sales. It may take a hundred friend requests on social media to get a response. Out of those hundred responses maybe 1 may fall into the trap they set. So scammers know they have to "bait" about 1,000 people to get one to send anything. I personally only use face book but I get at least one or two Friend Requests from obvious scammers a week. I'm sure the average person gets the same.  
 I also would like to add that scamming is an international problem. Close to half the people who contact my page are from nations other than the United States.
 Who the Scammers are

As far as who the scammers are it varies little. There are some who actually live in developed countries. Some are just native criminals who see how the scam works and decide to run with it . There are some people in the US that are scammers or accomplices. I've been contacted by victims who have wired or sent money to names and addresses within the US that the scammer says are a relative or agent for them. This does happen but its very risky because if reported and followed up in can result in the person who gets sent the money being charged.
   The vast majority of scammers are from West Africa ( Nigeria and Ghana) I came to that conclusion because other than having money wired to offshore accounts practically every address used as a "middleman" for funds supposedly going to a "service member" is a African name and an address  in a city in Ghana or Nigeria ( The City of Lagos is a hotbed of scammers). 
Scammers are usually young men, but they can vary in age. They are very intelligent and many are university students or well educated.

 What type of environment ( country) allows scammers to thrive

Scamming is considered a legitimate profession and totally acceptable in West Africa. These countries are very poor and the attitude is generally that western countries have been exploiting their people and resources for centuries. They see absolutely nothing wrong with theft by deception to get payback. Its part of their culture. It even has religious undertones. "Sakawa" combines the use of primitive type rites and ceremonies  and Internet scamming. In Ghana successful "Sakawa Boys" are looked up to the same way that "Gangsta Rappers" were idolized in the US. There are several songs that have been written about them and a series of locally produced movies. There is no moral compass in these movies. The scammers flaunt the lifestyle they obtained through theft and the victims aren't even portrayed. When bad fortune befalls the scammer its not because they are facing legal justice or answering for immoral acts, its because they failed to uphold their part of the "Sakawa" ritual. The Countries of Nigeria and Ghana pay lip service at most to the problem of scammers. Scammers bring in an untold amount of funds into the country. I would estimate its BILLIONS of dollars per year. Politicians and Law enforcement there get their share of this money, either directly or indirectly. Its not in their interest to shut it down. A middle Class Nigerian worker makes about 500 dollars a month  while Ghana is 35 dollars a month.  A successful scam even if it only gets 100 dollars is a huge amount of  money in those countries. A scammer who is able to do that once a week can make more money in a year than a week than most legitimate workers do in a year. Its not an exaggeration to say that a single high value scam can set up a scammer for years.
Who are the actual Victims of military romance scams

The average victim of a scammer falls into the target group I described above. Females 40-60 who are single, divorced or widowed. In addition there are several traits victims share, and I will try to not sound condescending as I list them. Please note that I'm not saying any of this as an insult. The victims are very emotionally vulnerable and like being courted and talked to by someone who shows ( or pretends to show) interest in them. They tend to feel isolated and are reaching out for company. They long to find someone who will accept them for who they are as far as age, looks and body type. They tend to be above average in intelligence, however if they become emotionally involved with a scammer they will start thinking emotionally. They  tend to use the internet a lot for social interaction rather than putting themselves on the dating scene in public. They feel it is more efficient to narrow down the search for that special someone before meeting them in person. They are open to  long distance relationships with the hope that it will end with them being together with that "special someone". They are not looking for any type of casual hookups or one night stands. They are in it for the long haul, and are willing to sacrifice a lot to get to meet "that special guy". This is something that is tailor made for a scammer to exploit.
What is a quick way to detect scammer profiles

Identifying what a typical military scammer profile looks like is a key to stopping it before it starts. First and foremost Scammers use pictures stolen from photogenic service members.  One thing that stands out is scammer profiles tend to be very basic and have only a few photos and entries on the time line and very few friends if any. The biggest thing is they will usually claim to be overseas in Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan or Africa. 
HINT: US service members never claim to be stationed in those places that is where they may DEPLOY to. Service Members are STATIONED in a Fort (Army) Camp (Marines) Air Base(Air Force) or Naval Station( Navy  in the continental United States or in places such as Germany or Korea 
If they have any hometown it will usually  be in a popular state, such as New York, California, Texas, Etc,  They will claim to be a Sergeant or an Officer and will say they attended a popular University or a service academy such as  West Point or the US Army War College.
HINT: Only officers attend West Point and only Senior Officers go to the US Army War College
One thing that I often find is because ethnic African names don't follow the same patterns as Western ones they will often combine and go by two surnames, such as  Anderson Johnson, Williams Roberts, Smith Jones, etc. 

How the scam plays out

The scam usually plays out in the following manner, I will go over this and also tell you why the story is total horse pucky.  After the initial contact the scammer will quickly open up and tell you a great bit of personal information about himself, all scripted of course. He will give you a hard luck story about how he lost his parents, and if married his wife died of cancer or in an accident or divorced him after cheating on him. He may say he is a single parent with a special needs child being looked after at a boarding school or a nanny. He may claim to be foreign born to explain  his poor grammar. 
HINT: by doing this he can explain why he has no relatives or friends actually living in the US something that is totally opposite of the truth of US service members.
Once he has gotten the attention ( and sympathy) of the victim the scammer will start in with the romance games. The scammer will say he wants to meet that "someone special" and settle down. They will play to the Victims emotions and start telling them how nice and sweet they are and start sending them romantic poems and song lyrics  and lay it on thick, He likes long walks holding hands, candlelight dinners where he cooks for them. The  man is just too good to be true. Once he gets the victim to fall for the spiel he starts setting the hook. He insists that as soon as he can he is coming "home" to see his "true love". Once the victim is happily waiting for "her dream man" to " come home" the scammer will start having money issues or need things such as a phone card or even a phone to call on. Also he may ask for money for food or medical needs or clothing or to take care of bills he has because he has no access to his pay.
Hint: Service members that are deployed are fed clothed and all medical care is provided by the military. They also have full access to their pay and can meet any financial obligations they have.
Once the scammer starts getting the victim to send funds and knows he has them deeply involved he will start getting more creative. He will say that his "command" requires that he gets a clearance to put you on a "Fiance" list so you can continue communicating with him. He will also say that he will need you to fill out a "Leave Request Form" a "Travel and Baggage Claim form" and will also ask for you to pay for " Travel Arrangements". This is all so he can talk to and come home to his " True love". The scammer, or his "Commanding Officer" will send Emails with official looking forms attached for you to fill out and send back. There is often a "fee" that has to be paid in conjunction with it. 
HINT: There is absolutely no such thing as "Fiance Benefits" or "Approved Contact Lists" Also any type of leave or travel or transportation needs absolutely no requests or approval from anyone besides the Service Member and his immediate Command. Any type of paperwork for leave or travel is internal and a service members travel and luggage arrangements are arranged and funded by the military, using military or chartered airlines. The "Official Forms" are complete fabrication using copied letterheads and military like jargon to appear real
The scammer may also use tried and true methods to con the victim out of more funds. They may say they are sending a package with valuable items ( jewelry, money or gold) their unit found while "raiding an ISIS headquarters and decided to keep. They will say its worth a huge amount of money and they need you to pay a " fee" to get it through customs, of course the customs "agent" is either an offshore bank or an address in Nigeria or Ghana. They will even send photos of "the package" and "Customs tag" with your name and address on it. If you do send money to get the " package" the scammer will keep contacting you, sometimes posing as a " customs agent" or Interpol saying there is a problem with the tag  and requesting even more money. If you don't send it they may say that you can be charged as an accomplice  and arrested, all in hopes of getting more money from you.
HINT: As you might guess by now, there never is a package and the picture is a generic photo copied with your info pasted on to it. It never exited. There is no customs or police investigation, just a scammer trying to milk you dry.
The Scam plays out when the victim finally realizes the "Soldier" she fell for is never coming, and has bilked her out of everything she can send. Once the victim firmly states she has nothing else the scammer will become either " upset" because she doesn't love him and try to convince her to beg, steal or borrow to get even more money. The Scammer will continue this cycle over and over.
Conclusion: What I laid out is the absolute worse scenario. Often the victim will realize after they have sent money that they are dealing with a scammer and things will end. Victims I have spoken to have lost anywhere from 150 to 100,000 dollars. Even with the low dollar amounts the victims have suffered through a lot of emotional trauma. More than once I have to talk them out of harming themselves or taking other drastic action.

 What is a sure way to find out if someone is a Scammer

As for methods to immediately know if someone is a scammer there are several ways that I as a retired military member can see through their fake stories. I can't really pass 20 years experience to someone in a paragraph or two, and scammers certainly have the ability to google enough information to sound legitimate to someone who has never served. They often have a spiel about what their rank, job title and duties are, all copied from easily accessible internet sources.
First a scammer will not agree to call or skype with you. They will give the excuse that its not allowed for security reasons. Using logic, if they were involved in some high security type of deployment they wouldn't be allowed to use the internet or phone to talk to a complete stranger either. Deployed service members don't spend their entire deployment locked in mortal combat with ISIS. They have "down time" in which they are able to go to a secure base, clean up equipment, take showers, do laundry and relax. There are small post exchanges there where they can purchase health items, plus small electronics and there are places to get burgers, fries, etc. They also have internet access and buildings with a large amount of phones in it. They can purchase or use phone cards and often can call for no charge at all. I will add that there are ATM machines and check cashing places in these rear areas. In short if you are contacted by a real service member via internet they should be able to at a minimum call you. If they are messaging they can simply walk to the next building and call.
In line with that a scammer will not be able to provide you with a photograph that you have him strike a certain pose in or holding up a hand written note. They have are only able to copy a few photos of a service member off the internet and chances are none of them are the pose you pic. Be aware that in some cases a scammer will find a photo of a service member holding up an object and photo shop letters and dates in it. Usually this is easily detected if you enlarge the photo.
One last easy tip is that a scammer will not be able to provide you with a military address to send him anything. The scammer will insist than other than transferring funds overseas to an anonymous account, the only other way to get him items is through am "agent" in you guessed it,, Nigeria or Ghana. I would like to add that sometimes the scammer may be in the US or use an accomplice here, and they will say that person is a relative. US service members deployed overseas use the military mail system. Every piece of mail or package goes through an APO (Army Post Office) if they are Army or Air Force or an FPO (Fleet Post Office) if they are Navy or Marine Corps. There is NO exception to this rule. They will never be a foreign address or country indicated. Here are a few examples of deployed Military addresses.

Capt John Doe
unit 45013  Box 2666
APO AP 96338

Sgt James Smith
2 Cav Div A Co 1st Plt
Camp Victory
APO AE 09388

CPO Jay Ball
USS Dakota
A-3 Division
FPO AE 09565.

If you noticed the zip codes in those addresses are close to zip codes in San Francisco and New York, which are locations where Military Post Offices are that process mail overseas. A scammer will not use these addresses if he wants to receive anything from you. 
One last tip is to do a Google Image search on the photos the scammer is using. In many cases scam alert sites may have these images as being used by several different scammer profiles.

 The delicate issue of nude photos

As far as nude photos often scammers will convince their victim to send explicit photos of themselves. This can be embarrassing but victims need to realize its water under the bridge. The worst thing about it is that scammers will threaten to "publish" them and try to blackmail the victim. This is always a bluff and just an attempt to squeeze out more money from the Victim.

After the scam ends

After someone realizes they have been scammed or are simply being targeted there are several steps to take.
The first is come to grips with the fact that you will NOT get your money back. Its the same as if you dropped cash in a street of a crowded city and didn't realize it until the next day.
If you feel your bank account or credit card info may have been comprised alert the companies and get new cards and account numbers. ( I've not heard of this happening in MRS's but it is a possibility.
The second is to report the scammer profile to the site you met them on and block all contact. You may want to consider creating a new profile or email account and deleting the old ones. The same with your phone. Changing all of these may seem extreme but the thing to realize is that the scammer who you were dealing with knows them. While you are onto his one fake profile he may have several others he will contact you on. Perhaps with a totally different type of scam. One thing I have noted is that victims are sometimes  contacted by someone claiming to be a "Scam Recovery Agent" who will say they can get all your money back. They will ask for details and say they are on to who scammed you and are ready to arrest them and recover what you lost. Of course there will be an "Official Report Form" to fill out... and a fee that must be sent to.. you guessed it Nigeria.
 Another thing to do is to report this to your local PD. Gather whatever receipts you have and make them take a report. While it may seem embarrassing its important that figures and statistics on these crimes be bought to law enforcement's attention at all levels. Get your story out, even if you remain anonymous. 
One last thing is to NOT become obsessed with the real service member in the stolen images. I have run into this in way to many cases. The victim of the scam says they want to find the "real" soldier and warn them. Reading between the lines I know the real reason is that they have fallen for the man in the picture and want to contact them in hopes of actually connecting. While scammers may use pictures of high ranking officers ( Generals) that are easily found on Wikipedia a large number of images are not traceable. I do not attempt to find them and neither should the victim for several reasons. First the service members privacy has already been violated and he may have already been contacted several times already. If he is in a relationship the last thing he needs is having to explain to his partner why he keeps getting contacted by women from dating sites. Delete the photos and move on.

Who is the person on your military scammer facebook cover?

I'm glad you asked that question. That person is one of the reasons I started the page. He is not a military romance scammer in the sense that he is not a Nigerian who scams victims into sending money overseas. His name is Dennis Howard Chevalier and he lives in the Dallas Fort Worth area. He was exposed by the Stolen Valor Community about 4 years ago for claiming to be a USAF Lt Col Pilot and Veteran of Desert Storm. While uncovering his lies about his service we uncovered that he had been married 6 times and uses dating sites and lies about his military service, being a Police Officer and a Doctor in Forensic Psychology  to pick up women on the internet.
His method is to quickly get who he is dating to marry him then take control of their assets and lives and use them while emotionally abusing them. He has been married and divorced  twice more since he was first exposed for a total of 8 times. 
If I come across a case of stolen valor where a person acts like he does I will post their information on my page. Because of face book's rules I blacked out his face, but if you look back on my page I have him and three others that I profiled in case women in the US get contacted by them on a dating site. In his case, it actually worked, I had a woman contact me who had met him through a dating site and thought there was something off about him. I was able to tell her his story and she googled him and dodged the bullet
Thank you very much for asking me about my page and what I do. Please contact the page at any time if you have any Questions

Saturday, September 9, 2017

New facebook page on Military Romance Scammers

Last Sunday I found a facebook page that is about military scammers.  I joined the page and posted info on my blog.  The owner of the page contacted me privately.  He shared my info on his page to bring more traffic here.
So now I want to share his facebook page here so you can go see his stuff. 
I am going to get more info about his page and how he got involved in the fight of this.  So stay tuned.

Monday, September 4, 2017

Survey results

The survey I put out a while back I thought I would share the results with you all.

If you haven't filled it out yet, please do.  I want to hear from my readers.  Thanks!

Sunday, September 3, 2017

Sign the petition to try and stop online scammers


I just signed the petition, “Responsibilities Required From Social Media Regarding Military Romance Scamming.” I think this is important. Will you sign it too?

Here’s the link:


October 8 - my one year anniversary for blogging

On October 8, 2017 I will be celebrating my one year anniversary of blogging about my online dating experiences.  My stories that I share you with all have been hilarious, crazy, entertaining and fun.  
I want to do something special for my anniversary.  But I need ideas from you.  Should we have a get together at the Park to celebrate?  Any of my local readers could come and share stories and I would love to meet my readers.
Or is there something else I should do?  I want your ideas.  So comment here on the blog or email me your suggestions at
I'm trying to decide where to go from here.  I had thoughts when I first started this about starting my own dating site but I would need IT help.  I'd like to design a site where members identifies would be verified and make it harder for fakers to get on.  Make it a place where men and women who really want to meet others and find their soulmate.  If you a programming background and are interested in this, let me know.  Who knows what could happen.
But in the meantime I am still in the game to catch scammers so I will continue.
And I am still trying to get on the Ellen Show!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, August 24, 2017

Allow me to introduce you to David Bob Jones

Yes that's today scammer's name.  LOL!!!!  I deactivated my profiles for a while to take a break.  Last weekend I decided to reactivate them just see what's happening.  And right away David Bob Jones sent me a message on POF.  LOL!!  Well when I looked at his picture, are you ready?  This is the 3rd time this picture has been used.  LOL!!  I couldn't stop laughing.  So as the stargatelady, I played along.  Well, here are the emails.  Get your popcorn and soda ready cause here we go.

Wow Patsy, You really look soo sweet and charming, I love your smile, Can you try and get hangout messenger for us to chat and get to know each other better, I'm very happy to meet you on the site dear, I really want to stay in-touch with you and see where this will lead us.
My name is  David Bob Jones, I was born on the 18th of September 1967 at Baptist Hospital of Florida,I started A & A Children start 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist Church Schools. I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the Military academy at the age of 16. .. My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field of the army and later worked with the UN. I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam  ,I had a pretty bad experience.

  I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence of the Sergeant First Class. I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior management of the military.

 I am currently stationed in Syria for peace keeping and i will be relocating in few weeks time , I'm looking for a honest and loving woman i can relocate to. I have to let you know that I am on my second mission to Syria. My first mission to Syria was in 2014. My mission ended in 2015. Went back to the States, I found out that my ex betrayed my love by going in for another man. She cost me a lost. She misused my properties so I paid her off. I was in love with her with all my heart but she let me down. I was with her for 14 years.  I am now looking for the one whisk to my heart,a woman who will love me for me and not for what i have..

I am looking for true love to spend the rest of my life with. : Hope things will change from one stage to another.I like you and you are very beautiful as well.I will be home in less than  2 month  time .i lost my family during the world trade center tourist attack,i hate to talk about this cause it makes me sad every time i think about it.Am actually relocating because it hurts whenever i come home,it reminds me of my past.. I don't use to communicate with outsiders because of security reasons but I need a woman for myself as am retiring from the army to settle down..

 A woman that will be there for me and I will be there for her too.  There is a smile of love, and there is a smile of Deceit, and there is a smile of smiles, in which these two smile meet, a smile is ever the most bright and beautiful with a tear upon it. What is the dawn without the dew? the tear is rendered by the smile precious above the smile itself........

I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest,and looking to meet a woman that i can spend the rest of my life with in good times and in bad times as well, A woman that I can love and cherished with all my whole being and heart and I pray to God almighty that he will provide me with that kind of a woman someday in my life.

I'm pride of myself in being honest and most trustworthy, I seek that in a mate, someone who is compassionate yet understanding who has a calm behavior. I'm leaving for patrol now and i really need your prayers, Sending you a song and flower from Syria, Hope to read from you when i return, Stay blessed........
Now here is email #2:
Thanks for the mail Patsy, I believe am that man you are looking for, I will never hurt a woman in any manner, I don't drink or use drugs i don't need them, I want to be the first to wish you Happy Birthday before September, We both have our birthdays in the same month Wow, I hope we can celebrate it together, I'm a Christian and i love God soo much, You know when you love God you can never hurt a fly, I do believe in God with all my heart. But due to the nature of my job, I'm not able to attend church. I believe  do not need to be present in the Church always for God to bless me. I pray a lot to him because he is the one I believe and go to when things not turning themselves round. I was raised a Catholic. My mom was a Teacher and she spent more of her time to make us understands the Bible. My dad was the head team of the EMT in the Army Field. They were touring and were on vacation. I really miss my Mom a lot but I'm over it, it almost broke me down in life.
My philosophy of life is to always try and find the good in people and be open minded. I am a passionate, intelligent, fun loving man who has a touch of class and a young point of view. Have learned to take life as it comes, know who I am and where I am going. I love to have adventures, large or small and I'm looking for someone to share them with. I enjoy doing anything that keeps me outdoors in the sunshine and wind, especially anything near, in or on the water. I enjoy travel and exploring new places, everything from exotic trips to jumping in the car and seeing what is around the next corner and would love to share that with someone who feels the same way. I enjoy all types of music, concerts, live theater, movies, having great conversations and listening to other people's perspectives. I enjoy a healthy, active lifestyle and like to keep myself busy with projects and activities. I look into the future with hope and would like to create a relationship based on respect, understanding, trust and love. Seeking a relationship with longevity and not just something that will end in just a blink of an eye. I have a great sense of humor and can dish it out to make a sad day enjoyable. Honestly I've all that it takes to be a man, I don't really need anything from my partner. Maybe in terms of circumstances there might some kind of help from each other, helping to make things right........
What's your favorite color?

What are your favorite types of food?

What type of music do you listen to?

What kind of work do you do?
I will be very happy to concentrate on you and see where this will leas us, I'm going to send you a song for you to know that God is with you and am very happy to meet you, Looking forward to read from you soon...
Now my friend Darin that I work with is my Army expert.  He is a veteran in the Army.  So I asked David Bob the question Darin said to ask.  What FOB is he at?  Well here is his answer:

I'm at Sayqal Military Airbase in Damascus

So I asked Darin.  He said this is a Syrian base and no Americans would be at it.    So now we are off to google hangout.  And here is the conversation and then the stargatelady let's him have it.  :)

This one gave quickly.  Yes I did win.  I always win.  :)
And now for your viewing pleasure (Gag me), here is David Bob Jones.
As always thank you Darin for your information!

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